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Ana ambiri amadziŵa bwino lomwe kupezerera anzawo chifukwa chakuti amakuona tsiku lililonse! Kupezerera anzawo kumachitika pamene wina wavulaza kapena kumuopseza munthu dala ndipo amene akuvutitsidwayo amavutika kuti adziteteze. Choncho, aliyense ayenera kutenga nawo mbali kuti athetse vutoli.
Kupezerera anzawo n'kulakwa! Ndi khalidwe limene limapangitsa munthu amene akuvutitsidwayo kukhala wamantha kapena wosamasuka. Pali njira zambiri zimene achinyamata amapezererana anzawo, ngakhale kuti panthawiyo sakuzindikira.


Zina mwa izi ndi:

  • Kumenya nkhonya, kukankhana ndi zinthu zina zimene zimapweteka anthu mwakuthupi
  • Kufalitsa mphekesera zoipa za anthu
  • Kuletsa anthu ena pagulu
  • Kunyoza anthu mwankhanza
  • Kupangitsa anthu ena "kuukira" ena
  1. Kupezerera anzawo mwamawu - kutchula mayina achipongwe, kunyoza, kufalitsa mphekesera, kuwopseza, kunena zoipa za chikhalidwe, fuko, mtundu, chipembedzo, jenda, kapena malingaliro ogonana, ndemanga zosayenera zogonana.
  2. Kupezerera Ena Pagulu - kuthamangitsa anthu, kuchitira nkhanza anthu ena, kusaphatikiza ena pagulu, kuchititsa manyazi ena ndi manja pagulu kapena zolemba zomwe zimafuna kunyoza ena.
  3. Kupezerera Mwakuthupi - kumenya, kupenja, kukanikiza, kuthamangitsa, kukankhana, kuumiriza, kuwononga kapena kuba katundu, kugwirana mosayenera.
  4. Kupezerera anzawo pa intaneti - kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti kapena kutumizirana mameseji kuwopseza, kutsitsa, kufalitsa mphekesera kapena kuseka wina.

Kupezerera anzawo kumakhumudwitsa anthu. Zitha kupangitsa ana kukhala osungulumwa, osasangalala komanso amantha. Zingawachititse kudziona kuti ndi otetezeka n’kumaganiza kuti pali vuto linalake. Ana akhoza kutaya chikhulupiriro ndipo sangafunenso kupita kusukulu. Mwinanso zingawadwalitse.


Anthu ena amaganiza kuti kupezerera anzawo ndi mbali chabe ya kukula ndi njira yoti achinyamata aphunzire kudziletsa. Koma kupezerera anzawo kungathe kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zokhalitsa m’thupi ndi m’maganizo. Zina mwa izi ndi:

  • Kusiya ntchito za banja ndi sukulu, kufuna kukhala ndekha.
  • Manyazi
  • Matenda a m'mimba
  • litsipa
  • Mantha Oopsa
  • Kulephera kugona
  • Kugona kwambiri
  • Kukhala wotopa
  • Zoopsya

Ngati kuvutitsa anthu sikunalekezedwe, kumapweteketsanso anthu amene akuona, komanso munthu amene amavutitsa anzawo. Oyimilira ali ndi mantha kuti akhoza kuzunzidwa. Ngakhale ataona kuti akuvutitsidwa ndi munthu amene akuvutitsidwayo, amapewa kutenga nawo mbali n’cholinga chodziteteza kapena chifukwa chosadziwa choti achite.


Ana amene amaphunzira kuti akhoza kuthawa chiwawa ndi chiwawa amapitirizabe kuchita zimenezi akakula. Iwo ali ndi mwayi waukulu wochita nawo zachipongwe, zachipongwe, ndi khalidwe laupandu pambuyo pa moyo.


Kupezerera anzawo kungakhudze kuphunzira


Kupsinjika maganizo ndi nkhawa zomwe zimadza chifukwa cha kupezerera anzawo komanso kuzunzidwa zingapangitse kuti zikhale zovuta kuti ana aphunzire. Zingayambitse vuto la kuika maganizo pa zinthu ndi kuchepetsa luso lawo lolunjika, zomwe zimakhudza luso lawo lokumbukira zinthu zomwe aphunzira.


Kupezerera anzawo kungayambitse nkhawa zambiri


Kupezerera anzawo n’kopweteka ndiponso n’kochititsa manyazi, ndipo ana amene amapezerera anzawo amachita manyazi, amamenyedwa ndiponso kuchita manyazi. Ngati ululuwo sunathetsedwe, kupezerera anzawo kungayambitsenso kuganizira za kudzipha kapena kuchita zachiwawa.

Ku Canada, mwana mmodzi pa ana atatu alionse anachitiridwapo zachipongwe. Pafupifupi theka la makolo a ku Canada akuti ali ndi mwana amene amapezereredwa. Kafukufuku wapeza kuti kupezerera anzawo kumachitika kamodzi mphindi zisanu ndi ziwiri zilizonse pabwalo lamasewera komanso kamodzi mphindi 1 zilizonse mkalasi.


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Izi zati, nazi zinthu zingapo zenizeni zomwe mungachite:

Kwa Ozunzidwa:

  • Chokanipo
  • Uzani wina yemwe mumamukhulupirira - mphunzitsi, mphunzitsi, mlangizi, kholo
  • Pemphani thandizo
  • Nenani chinthu choyamika kwa wopezererayo kuti amusokoneze
  • Khalani m'magulu kuti mupewe mikangano
  • Gwiritsani ntchito nthabwala kuti mutaya kapena kulumikizana ndi omwe akukuvutitsani
  • Muziyerekezera kuti amene akukuvutitsaniyo sakukukhudzani
  • Pitirizani kudzikumbutsa kuti ndinu munthu wabwino ndipo muyenera kulemekezedwa

Kwa Oyimilira:

M'malo monyalanyaza zochitika zachipongwe, yesani:

  • Uzani mphunzitsi, mphunzitsi kapena mlangizi
  • Yendani pafupi kapena pafupi ndi wozunzidwayo
  • Gwiritsani ntchito mawu anu - nenani "siyani"
  • Khalani bwenzi wozunzidwayo
  • Atsogolereni wozunzidwayo kutali ndi mkhalidwewo

Kwa Ovutitsa:

  • Lankhulani ndi mphunzitsi kapena mlangizi
  • Ganizilani mmene mungamve ngati wina akukuvutitsani
  • Ganizirani momwe akumvera - ganizirani musanachite
  • Canada ili pa nambala 9 pagulu la achinyamata azaka 13 m'mayiko 35. [1]
  • Pafupifupi mwana mmodzi mwa ophunzira atatu alionse ku Canada ananena kuti akupezereredwa posachedwapa. [2]
  • Mwa anthu achikulire a ku Canada, 38 peresenti ya amuna ndi 30 peresenti ya akazi ananena kuti anachitiridwapo zachipongwe mwa apo ndi apo kapena kaŵirikaŵiri m’zaka zawo za sukulu. [3]
  • 47% ya makolo aku Canada akuti ali ndi mwana wochitiridwa nkhanza. [4]
  • Kutenga nawo mbali pazachipongwe kumawonjezera chiopsezo cha malingaliro ofuna kudzipha mwa achinyamata. [5]
  • Mlingo wa tsankho pakati pa ophunzira omwe amadziwika kuti Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans-identified, Two-Spirited, Queer kapena Questioning (LGBTQ) ndi wokwera katatu kuposa achinyamata omwe amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. [4]
  • Atsikana ndi omwe amakonda kupezerera anzawo pa intaneti kuposa anyamata. [6]
  • 7% ya anthu achikulire omwe amagwiritsa ntchito intaneti ku Canada, azaka 18 kapena kuposerapo, amadzinenera kuti adazunzidwapo pa intaneti nthawi ina ya moyo wawo. [7]
  • Njira yodziwika bwino ya kupezerera anzawo pa intaneti inali kulandira maimelo owopseza kapena aukali kapena mauthenga apompopompo, zomwe zimanenedwa ndi 73% ya ozunzidwa. [6]
  • 40% ya ogwira ntchito ku Canada amachitiridwa nkhanza mlungu uliwonse. [7]
  1. Canadian Council on Learning - Kupezerera anzawo ku Canada: Momwe mantha amakhudzira kuphunzira
  2. Molcho M., Craig W., Due P., Pickett W., Harel-fisch Y., Overpeck, M., and HBSC Bullying Writing Group. Zochitika zapadziko lonse mumayendedwe ovutitsa anzawo 1994-2006: zopezeka ku Europe ndi North America. International Journal of Public Health. 2009, 54 (S2): 225-234
  3. Kim YS, ndi leventhal B. Bullying ndi Kudzipha. Ndemanga. International Journal of Adolescent Medicine and Health. 2008, 20 (2): 133-154
  4. Alberta Waulere - Kupezerera Anthu Ogonana ndi Amuna Kapena Akazi Amuna Kapena Akazi
  5. Statistics Canada - Kupezerera anzawo pa intaneti komanso kunyengerera ana ndi achinyamata
  6. Statistics Canada - Kudziwonetsa nokha kuzunzidwa pa intaneti ku Canada
  7. Lee RT, ndi Brotheridge CM "Nkhani ikasanduka nkhanza: Kupezerera anzawo kuntchito monga momwe zimasonyezera kusagwirizana / kupezerera anzawo, kuthana ndi mavuto, komanso moyo wabwino". European Journal of Work and Organizational Psychology. 2006, 00 (0): 1-26
    SOURCE

Bodza #1 - "Ana ayenera kuphunzira kudziyimira okha."
Zoona Zenizeni - Ana amene amalimba mtima kudandaula za kuchitiridwa nkhanza amanena kuti ayesera ndipo sangathe kulimbana ndi vutoli paokha. Chitani madandaulo awo ngati kupempha thandizo. Kuwonjezera pa kupereka chithandizo, kungakhale kothandiza kupereka ana othetsa mavuto ndi maphunziro odzidalira kuti awathandize kuthana ndi zovuta.


Nthano #2 - "Ana ayenera kubwezera - kwambiri."
Zowona - Izi zitha kuvulaza kwambiri. Anthu amene amapezerera anzawo nthawi zambiri amakhala akuluakulu komanso amphamvu kuposa amene amapezerera anzawo. Izi zimapatsanso ana lingaliro lakuti chiwawa ndi njira yovomerezeka yothetsera mavuto. Ana amaphunzira kupezerera anzawo poona akuluakulu akugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zawo mwaukali. Akuluakulu ali ndi mwayi wopereka chitsanzo chabwino mwa kuphunzitsa ana mmene angathetsere mavuto pogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zawo m’njira yoyenera.


Nthano #3 - "Imamanga umunthu."
Zoona - Ana amene amapezereredwa mobwerezabwereza, amadziona kuti ndi otsika komanso sakhulupirira ena. Kupezerera ena kumawononga maganizo a munthu.


Nthano #4 - "Ndodo ndi miyala zimatha kuthyola mafupa anu koma mawu sangakupwetekeni."
Zowona - Zipsera zosiyidwa ndi kutchula mayina zimatha kukhala moyo wonse.


Nthano #5 - “Kumeneko sikupezerera anzawo. Amangoseka basi.”
Zoona - Kunyoza koopsa kumapweteka ndipo kuyenera kuimitsidwa.


Nthano #6 - "Nthawi zonse pakhala pali ovutitsa anzawo ndipo padzakhalapo nthawi zonse."
Zowona - Pogwira ntchito limodzi monga makolo, aphunzitsi ndi ophunzira tili ndi mphamvu zosintha zinthu ndikupanga tsogolo labwino la ana athu. Monga katswiri wotsogola, Shelley Hymel, akuti, "Zimatengera mtundu wonse kusintha chikhalidwe". Tiyeni tigwire ntchito limodzi kusintha maganizo pa nkhani ya kupezerera anzawo. Kupatula apo, kupezerera ena si nkhani ya chilango - ndi mphindi yophunzitsira.


Nthano #7 - "Ana adzakhala ana."
Zoona - Kupezerera anzawo ndi khalidwe lophunziridwa. Ana angakhale akutengera khalidwe laukali limene amaonera pa TV, m’mafilimu kapena kunyumba. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti 93% yamasewera apakanema amalipira machitidwe achiwawa. Zomwe zapeza zikusonyeza kuti anyamata 25 pa 12 aliwonse azaka zapakati pa 17 ndi XNUMX amakonda kuchezera malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ankhanza komanso odana ndi anthu, koma maphunziro ophunzitsa pa TV amachepetsa kuonera zachiwawa kwa anyamata komanso kuchita zachiwawa m’mabwalo. Ndikofunikira kuti akuluakulu akambirane ndi achinyamata za nkhanza zomwe zimachitika pawailesi, kuti aphunzire momwe angagwiritsire ntchito nkhanza. M'pofunika kuika maganizo pa kusintha maganizo pa zachiwawa.

Source: Boma la Alberta

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